r/AskGaybrosOver30 is a free community and subreddit where non-straight men gather to ask questions and give support to each other.

Everyone is welcome to join the subreddit, however, only those over 30 are able to post. If you are under 30, you can comment on posts and also ask questions once a week in a dedicated weekly thread.

Additionally, every user has to define a user flair with an age range that indicates others their age when they post or comment. This makes the information more useful for everyone.

Moreover, if you'd like, you can also join the community's Discord server. Both the subreddit and the Discord are great places to interact with like-minded people, make new friends, and get support and useful advice.


  • Membership: Free Community
  • Year Founded: 2017
  • Amount of members: 71,900
  • Online Group: Yes
  • Job board: No
  • Language: English
  • Method: Virtual


Ask questions and get support:
This subreddit is the ideal place to ask questions to other non-straight men over 30 years old. Indeed, you need to be over 30 to be able to post and indicate your age range in your user flair.

Enjoy the weekly thread:
The community has a weekly thread that allows people under 30 years old to post their questions to get support from other members of the community.

Connect with like-minded people:
Besides the subreddit, which is a great place to find like-minded people to connect with, the community has a Discord server that allows you to chat in real time and have casual conversations with others.


No requirements.



There is a weekly thread for questions from members under 30. You can use this thread if you are below 30 to ask questions to other members of the community since people below 30 aren't able to post in r/AskGaybrosOver30.

Networking Events

Members of this community interact mostly in the subreddit. There, only members who are 30 years or older are able to post questions to others inside the community. Each user must set a flair with their age range to be able to post or comment, which is useful information for others reading the posts or comments.

Additionally, you can choose to join the community's Discord server. This is the place to chat in real-time with others, as well as make new friends and have casual discussions.


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